Is it always very important to take things really seriously everytime ? The problem with most of us is , we are in a hustle bustle all the time .
Just try and give a second thought , what if we do the required work easily , not always running after it , just to make ourselves look as if we are the only ones who work . However, that is not the case , what is required is that we should be responsible enough and should be thorough of our responsibilities . Try and make your work as easy as possible . Always wear a smile on your face when you are involved in any sort of work . Major point is that you should be relaxed in whatever you are doing . Never stress out your brain . You could easily fool it off !! See , we are the ones who create panic in our minds which in turn reflects in our behaviours . Tell your mind , you could easily go through and mark my words , it is going to lead in the correct direction . Like , for an instance , today itself , I got a bit late in waking up , however , instead of being panicky , I kept on doing my work smoothly , and trust me , I was not late at all , completed all my tasks in time , and felt really happy about it which left a smile on my face . Try it out folks , I never say run away from your responsibilities , do obey them (responsibly) but in an easy manner . It is that simple 🙂 🙂
Sitting in the balcony today , I was wondering what is the correct path towards anything and everything ? And the answers to that undoubtedly did wonders 🙂 🙂
It is not that we do not know what id right and what is wrong , somehow our own thoughts , beliefs and actions make us do the thing which is actually wrong , however seems right to us . Sounds Tricky ?? Yeah it does .
Whenever you are doing something just speak up to your minds , Am I doing the right thing ?? Would it lead me to the correct path ?? Even God helps us choosing the correct path , the only matter is to understand . God always gives us hints and directions , we are the ones who have to ponder upon them . No one else is going to come forward always to explain you distinguishing the rights and wrongs.
Sometimes we want a thing so desperately that we do not matter to chose whether it is right or wrong , and it may sometimes leave you tensed .
The only thing we have to do is to listen to our conscience .
Our inner consciousness is never gonna allow us to do something wrong . Trust me it does . Even we all know whenever we try to do something wrong , for example speaking a lie , that inner instinct of ours is gonna prompt us saying no . Try and listen to it , it is never wrong . Trust and follow God’s directions , it will never take you to the wrong path!!
I think everyone is familiar with the term anger , right ? Because we all have it in ourselves , some express it and some do not . Now the question arises , why to control your anger and how to do it ? It sounds really simple , however it is not as it seems .
But if we make up our minds that we have to do so , trust me it will lead you to that path easily and efficiently . All depends upon us how we take things . We live in a world , where everyone is different to each other stating their own peculiar nature , and why not , even the fingers in our hands are not the same . But they all make one hand , similarly all shades in a person makes a human being . So , it is pretty much ok that you possess everything in you , still anger and frustration is something which we should all learn to have control on. Look , it is very much important for our well-being . When we express anger , we are obviously causing harm to the other person but more to ourselves. No one else would be more disturbed , but you yourself be the most .
If we are at our working place , and our senior scolded us for doing something wrong , it made you angry , however you did not express it then and there , but once coming back home , a little disturbing thing or more than that could make you angry . You might be bursting at your child , or anyone else . What we notice here is , it is all the matter of priorities and rights , not the issue that you could not control it . If controlling was an issue , then you would not have been able to do so at your work place . Try out the same at every place .
The best way to do so is , just manage to smile when something makes you angry . Also just chant some religious and holy words in your mind , and then see the change which it brings .
As I said , it all depends on us , how we react to things , and how we could control them . If we try out these simple steps in our day-to-day lives , things will go in a very easy and smooth manner .
I hope you all are going to try it out this beginning of the beautiful week itself .